Attachment Styles
Disorganized
Wants close — fears close
You want intimacy and fear intimacy at the same time. You approach and retreat, trust and mistrust, love and guard. A heart that learned that those who love can also hurt — and so lives in inner conflict.
Gifts
- Rare sensitivity to human complexity
- Capacity for deep change
- Empathy with others who feel torn
Shadow side
- Swinging between clinging and vanishing
- Strong contradictory emotions
- Sabotaging what you most want
Core desire
To love and feel safe at once
Core fear
That whoever comes close will end up hurting you
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