Attachment Styles

Secure

Trusts and lets others trust

You're comfortable with both intimacy and autonomy. You trust without losing yourself, know how to ask for and offer care, and conflicts don't shake your base — because you have one.

Gifts

  • Stable, real bonds
  • Ability to give and receive affection
  • Emotional regulation under relational stress

Shadow side

  • Assuming everyone should work this way
  • Underestimating others' wounds

Core desire

To love and be loved freely

Core fear

Losing the base you've built

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