Attachment Styles

Avoidant

Independence above all

You learned that relying on yourself is safest. You value autonomy, solve things alone, and keep people at a comfortable distance. Too much intimacy weighs on you — even when you want it.

Gifts

  • Genuine autonomy
  • Calm under emotional pressure
  • Focus and solo achievement

Shadow side

  • Isolating just when you need support
  • Minimizing emotional needs
  • Hard time letting others in

Core desire

To preserve freedom and integrity

Core fear

Being invaded, controlled or dependent

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